'I don't like black women, they're all (loud, rude, fit appropriate, yet negative adjective here)'
'But your mother is black'
'I don't want to marry my mum do I?'
Yes this was a tweet I posted last night, where some men chose to argue and miss the point of what my 140 characters meant.
We know you do not want to date your mothers, that would be incredibly gross. However responding in such a manner would mean you've missed the entire point.
Generalising women and your own race not only shows ignorance towards your culture, but the people who raised you and I. I repeat, we don't want you to date your mothers. . but let me keep it real if I ever heard my son say 'I don't date black women because they're too aggressive' etc. I'd be deeply offended. What the fuck did I raise?
A black woman was WHO raised you.
Black men understand this, black women do not care what race you find attractive, when it comes to preference that is an entirely different argument, but the moment you use derogatory words as to why you dislike us, then it becomes mind baffling.
If you can't express any type of love towards us, well how will other racial backgrounds?